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Friday, January 22, 2016

Knowing Ways - The Power of Making a Decision: Psychic Consultants Online Blog

Knowing Ways - The Power of Making a Decision
By Diana Blagdon

Several years ago I was working with a 60 year old coaching client who had been unemployed for over a year.  She was certain that her professional life was over.  She was debating which under employed opportunity would be her best option. She was emotionally overwhelmed and angry.

When she asked me to psychically look at the two possible job opportunities what I saw was the following scene from the Indiana Jones movie The Quest for the Holy Grail.

Indy finds himself at the precipice of a bottomless chasm. He can see that on the other side of the abyss stands the sacred temple in which the cup of Christ awaits him. Indy has searched the entire world for the Holy Grail, defied all kinds of rats, skeletons and villains, nearly lost his father, and risked death many times to come to this point.

He senses he is so close and yet so far.  As he looks down into the endless gorge, he recalls the foretelling of instructions specifically for this part of his journey.

Have Faith

Indy takes a deep breath and steps out over the chasm. He sees nothing to stand on, but he decides to follow the advice to Trust.  As soon as he leans out over the abyss, a bridge appears and he finds himself fully supported.

What was before his eyes as reality was transformed by faith?

 The bridge could only be accessed by fully stepping into the present.

Faith becomes a vision of things unseen that can sometimes only be accessed through trust. 

The message to my client was “Only those who are able to believe in the invisible can do the impossible”

The minute I said this the path to the right opened up in my mind’s eye and the Happy Day Café became her best choice.

How many times have you stood at a turning point in your life trying to decide which path to take?   Later you discover that either path would have gotten you to your destination – one choice just represented a more direct route than the other.  Occasionally you might even end up on a dead end road and have to turn around and start over. The key on those occasions is to notice the path and enjoy the journey. 

I saw that my client was at a turning point in her life when she thought she was at the end of a dead end road.

She was struggling to make a choice between what she believed were two pointless jobs. I “saw” that she was at a decision point and the path to the right provided a bridge to her future while the left hand path was dark, uphill and longer.  

I taught her this simple focus technique that she could utilize in times of turmoil to access her inner wisdom and assist her in taking a step of faith.

Take a couple of deep centering breaths; gently allow your eyes to close. In your mind’s eye by seeing, sensing or feeling create a vision of the scales of justice.  The left side of the scale represents NO the right side a YES.

In order to use this exercise you need to formulate your questions so a yes or no either or response is appropriate.  Ask the question, record the answer and pay attention to the results.  Know that the more you use and trust this process the more dependable it will be for you.

My client had 2 “menial” (her description not mine) job opportunities.  I saw the Happy Day Café as her best option and empowered her with a new skill to help her make choices in the future.  

Within 6 months of taking the job at the café she met the owner of a start up business that was looking for someone to come in and manage his operation.   She was delightfully on her way again in a business opportunity that has provided her with a creative, meaningful life experience.  She also found a new process to use in times of doubt.

By seeking out assistance in her time of turmoil she came away empowered with a new way of KNOWING.

Diana Blagdon is a Certified Master Psychic, Business & Life Coach, Author, Reiki Master and small business owner. She is available for one on one or group consultations through her web page www.dianablagdon.com or as an instant reader at Psychic Consultants Online www.psychicconsultantsonline.com

Tuesday, October 13, 2015

Find Your Life Coach at Psychic Consultants Online!


Why You Need a Life Coach to Change

By: Marilyn O'Malley

Really being seen and heard by someone is very powerful and profound. It changed my life and it will change yours. Having an intuitive life coach support, guide and teach you on a regular basis is empowering, inspiring and one of the best decisions you can make if you want to create more in your life and business.
It feels safe having a coach guiding and supporting you through your heart openings, challenges, heart aches and successes. Feeling safe is a must for you to be able to make changes in your life. If you don't feel safe you won't go beyond where you are now. If you are unclear and afraid of the unknown, you won't take actions to transform. Find a coach with your best interest in mind to take you into unknown and exciting territory. They know the path and what is needed to make the life journey you are on safely and efficiently.
When you start to make changes in your life and receive more into your life, it feels exciting and uplifting but also scary and unfamiliar. All is good until it starts to unconsciously feel like too much, because you are not used to being in this place and your ego dislikes change. That is when you start to feel uncomfortable because you feel too happy, you don't feel safe or you feel overwhelmed receiving so much attention, and you start to sabotage yourself. You bring yourself down to where you feel more energetically comfortable. Your coach will help you learn how to manage the receiving of more in your life, so you don't abandon yourself and your dreams.
A good coach understands what it takes to make a transition and up-level your life or business mentally, spiritually and physically. They lead the way for you to have the greatest success in the least amount of time, sharing the how's and why's, and their transformational tools. A coach will spot your self-sabotaging patterns and thinking of unworthiness quickly, so you can stop tripping yourself up and move forward confidently.
You will not take yourself as far as you can go on your own or think as big as you need to create greater success in your life on your own. You only know what you know. And just like the good intentions of getting a gym membership to become and/or stay healthy and fit, your intentions to learn how to receive more will often falter when the ego convinces you to stay in your comfort zone! That is why you can't change without new information, new actions and habits, and new beliefs that are aligned with your vision and a trusted coach who will stop you when you 'upper limit' yourself and revert to your comfort zone. That's why having a coach who is trained to help you create clarity of your vision and spot your limiting patterns and beliefs will enable you to make the changes necessary for the results you desire. I couldn't have made my leaps of faith and life changes without my coaches and mentor's guidance and assurance and I still work with coaches today.
At times you will feel lost and confused. Transition can have you feeling like your 'Alice In Wonderland' down-the-rabbit's-hole, wondering what is real and what isn't. Change is exciting and terrifying at times because you have to let go of parts of yourself that were lies and uncover the genius that was buried. It is important to have someone who you feel safe with holding your big vision for you while you are taking the steps necessary to make your life or business shift.
Your coach will hold you as a whole, creative and resourceful person. You are not broken, you are more powerful than you can imagine! A coach will connect you to your truths, heart, purpose, strengths, talents and unique gifts expanding your sense of yourself and worthiness. A coach will have you experience your potential and see your potential larger than you could imagine it on your own. Your coach will challenge you to get out of your comfort zone to grow and accomplish your visions and goals. Most people won't do this for themselves. Your coach is committed to your success!
A skilled coach will celebrate with you along the way and make sure that you recognize and cherish and acknowledge every success along the way. You most likely don't take time to realize your accomplishments and successes. Rushing onto what is the next task is the usual habit. In the absence of celebration you take how you have grown and what you have learned for granted. You neglect to value what has been manifested by you and therefore diminish what has been created by you and for you. Watching you blossom and influence the world will be celebrated all along the way.
Finding the right coach for you will change your life!

Wednesday, September 16, 2015

Harness Your Intuition With These Helpful Tips!

How to Become More Psychic

By: Karen Bell
One of the most common questions I receive from people is “Can I become psychic???” My answer to that question is, you already are!
I like to compare psychic abilities to muscles. In the same way that we are all born with muscles, we are also all born with some degree of psychic ability.
Some people have naturally stronger muscles, while other people have to work out and lift weights in order to develop their physical strength.  Psychic ability is no different. Some people are born naturally psychic, while others have a harder time connecting to their intuition. But no matter how intuitive you are now, there is always room to grow. There are always going to be steps you can take to develop your intuitive abilities even further. Today I’d like to share with you five things I do on a daily basis to maintain and improve my psychic ability.
1. Meditate
If you ask any spiritual teacher how to develop your intuition, almost all of them will agree that MEDITATION is always the first step to becoming more psychic (I agree.)
When you meditate, you slow down or stop thought, which creates a clearer channel for your intuition to communicate with you. Your intuition usually speaks in subtle ways, especially in the beginning. If you don’t take time to quiet your mind, you will not be able to hear the voice of your intuition (it’s like trying to hear a whisper at a rock concert!)
2. Pay Attention To Your Feelings
There are many different ways that people receive psychic information. Some people receive see visions (clairvoyance), while others hear sounds or voices (clairaudience). When people instantly “know” something that they could not otherwise know, it is called claircognizance. But in my experience the psychic ability that almost everyone can relate to is clairsentience, which means, “clear feeling”.
Have you ever had a hunch or gut feeling about something? Have you ever felt either uneasy or excited about a decision? Have you ever got either a good or bad feeling about another person? If so, you have experienced your intuition communicating to you through your feelings.
Since clairsentience is the most common psychic ability, it is also the easiest to develop. All you have to do to develop stronger clairsentience is pay close attention to your feelings.
You can practice this everyday by asking yourself, “How does this decision feel? How does this person feel? How does this food feel?” By tuning in to how things feel, you become more clairsentient and therefore more psychic.
3. Practice!
In order to become more psychic, you have to set aside time each day to developing yourself spiritually. This involves creating a special spiritual practice unique to you. Your spiritual practice should always include meditation, and may also incorporate prayer, yoga, journaling, reading a spiritual book, or anything else that helps you connect with your idea of a higher power.
You can also practice giving yourself intuitive readings every day. Record any insights you receive in your psychic journal (see the next step for more info on journaling).
If you want to eventually give readings to others (either professionally or just for fun) it’s important to practice that as well! Start out by giving readings to close friends, and be sure to pick people that you trust and feel comfortable with. If you are nervous, use tarot or angel cards to help get the ball rolling. Write down your insights in your psychic journal (see step 4), because things that don’t make sense now might make sense later.
4. Keep a Psychic Journal or Dream Journal
Keeping a journal is one of the easiest ways to become more psychic. A psychic journal is a place to record all the intuitive insights you receive about yourself or others. If you dream a lot, you can also keep a dream journal, as your intuition communicates with you frequently during the dream state.
Every day as part of your spiritual practice, write down everything you felt, saw, or heard during or after meditation (or during your dreams). After a few weeks, go back and read some of your entries to see if you notice any patterns. You can also write down any psychic impressions you have about future events.
Keeping a psychic journal has been a powerful way for me to develop confidence in myself. There has been many times where I forgot that I wrote something down, only to look back on it a few weeks later and notice that either a vision came true, or a simple sentence was an important piece of spiritual guidance.
5. Join a Psychic Development Class or Circle
When I was first developing my intuitive abilities, I was very resistant to taking a class because I thought I should be able to learn everything myself. After all, shouldn’t my inner voice be able to tell me everything I needed to know??? And so I bought tons of books on psychic development and put an anonymous ad in my local classifieds, offering free readings so that I could practice.
But I only got so far with this. Eventually I could not ignore the fact that my intuition was still nudging me to join a psychic development class. My intuition told me that a class would boost my confidence and introduce me to like-minded people who would support my development.
And so I reluctantly signed up for an online class, trusting that my intuition would be correct… and it was!
The class gave me an opportunity to learn techniques and meditations that dramatically improved my psychic ability in a short period of time. I was also able to give practice readings while my teacher listened in and coached me. At the end of the 12-week class, I was more confident than ever and I had a bunch of new friends that thought of psychic ability as normal and not “weird” (which is priceless, if you ask me). I also made back the money I spent on my tuition within one month of offering readings to others.
This is where my shameless self-promotion comes in, but only because I’d love to teach you how to become more psychic! You can join my psychic development class (I’ll teach you all my secrets for giving accurate intuitive readings for your yourself and others).
If you’re not able to my class, I’d encourage you to see if you have a Spiritualist church nearby, as they often offer psychic development circles on a regular basis (Spiritualists believe that our souls survive death and have the ability to communicate with the living. Their religion is focused on mediumship).
Developing your intuition is one of the most powerful ways to improve your life and become healthier and happier, because it encourages you to listen to the guidance of your soul. When you become more intuitive, your inner voice becomes more important than any external influence.